There are two things in one’s life, one is a “Need”, a basic necessity and one is a “Want”, “Desire”, “Tamanna”. You might not actually need this thing but still you want it. During MBA in HR we were taught about two different things, they had different names back then but according to layman’s language they are THE NEED and THE WANT.
2. The Variables
The Need is easy to understand and depends on a set of known variables that depend on the environment we live in and around.
But,
The Want - it takes its own route, it makes YOU. It makes you to lust about something or someone. It makes you believe that you deserve it. It’s not essential for you to have to survive, but the Want makes you believe that same. Sometimes it becomes more important than the Need.
3. The Fulfillments
One may feel the Need of something and the Want for something else entirely but the fulfillment of anyone is a whole lot different.
When the Need is fulfilled, it satisfies you in a way that it makes you at rest, it makes you from feeling negative to a neutral state of mind, but if,
The Want gets satisfied, even when you didn’t needed it, its like a altogether different experience of joy which one feels. It makes you feel a lot positive from neutral, it makes you feel on the top of the world even if for a single microsecond.
4. The Choices
The choices we make define our needs and wants. This is the defining moment how we shape our lives. This is the moment where we say I Need/Want this. This is the moment which defines what levels are we willing to go to get that thing to satisfy our Need/Want.
The choices can be good or bad. But the Needs and Wants get defined by that. These choices define our Life, our Careers, our Social Circle (and I am not talking about Facebook).
5. The Examples
Someone needs a car.
Someone wants it. They are two different things you know!!!
Someone needs a hearing aid.
Someone wants a bigger Bat to play with.
Someone needs a shoulder to cry on.
Someone wants a 6Feet+ husband.
Someone needs a raise in the salary.
Someone just wants it.
6. The Conclusion
As we see the Need and the Want have diminishing boundaries. One may mean Need to one and Want to another person.
One just needs to make the Right Choice, and demand the Right Thing from the universe.
As they say,
"No one can have the whole world, but a pie is definitely for us to take"
Adios
ConceptAdi

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